I really like this eye opening post, for two reasons:

• I think a conversation about any heterosexual physical sex should always be between the counterparts whose nature of their biological sexual organs are not immediately known to the other and therefore require some both empathy, sympathy as well as deep emotional understanding;
• Sex is about emotion as much as it is about physical. It’s also about sex as much as about other symbolic meaning attached to it. So, the understanding of how sex is understood help to delineate the aligned meaning of sex leading to a healthy activity for the counterparts engaging in the act.