Good read. Thanks Suzanna. As someone who has been on both sides -- as a narcissist and a survivor -- I resonate well with what you've written here. The one thing I will never ever do again is to be a narcissist. My suffering from dealing with quite a few (probably the law of nature: karma) is distracting me from my day to day work but what you have suggested here will help me get throug it. So, thank you so much.